For now, you might perceive yourself as a mess and a disaster. But let this thinking go away and embrace the positivity by thinking of what the future might hold. Try to be optimistic.
All is never lost in life, and humans tend to survive. So make the most of what is left by working hard and using all your humanly capacities to bring better times for yourself.
Your actions will cement your identity in the mind of your lover, and you would want to be the best person alive for someone you adore right? So adopt all the goodness in the world and radiate it towards your loved ones.
Don’t be too arrogant if you are among the hot shots. Your fame and fortune might just get lost someday. Positively establish your identity so that if need be, people stay by your side.