There are numerous types of relationships to explore when considering compatibility between two signs. We grow up in a parent/child dynamic. Outside our family, we form friendships with other children and eventually other adults. We look for and find love. And, we go to work and have careers, interacting with employers and co-workers.
Each sign-to-sign interaction guides our behavior in every relationship. Read through this section to find out how each of the above dynamics works astrologically so you can experience the optimal way to communicate and get along with your sign and all the other signs.
The Gemini-and-Scorpio interaction is very unusual since these are inconjunct signs. As the “I communicate” sign of the Zodiac, Gemini is open-minded, curious, and intelligent. Scorpio is the “I transform” sign of the Zodiac, and is intense, powerful, and a change agent. A long-term relationship (outside parent/child) is possible thanks to the fixed nature of Scorpio. However, these signs may not experience immediate attraction in romance or friendship, where connecting is a choice rather than an obligation.
Gemini Parent/Scorpio Child
The Gemini parent and Scorpio child will present some challenges. Scorpio, as a type, is always trying to find out where the power lies and test that power constantly. Thus, the Scorpio child can start running the household if the parents show too much weakness. The Gemini parent may prove too free-flowing for the Scorpio child, who wants their intensity matched by the parent. Since Gemini is not a sign to lead or establish power, both individuals can be frustrated due to very different expressions of energy.
Scorpio Parent/Gemini Child
The Scorpio parent and Gemini child can work much better because the Scorpio is in the default position of power and the Gemini is in the default position of a subordinate. The Scorpio parent appreciates the Gemini child’s adaptability but may want more intensity from the child than is likely to be part of the child’s natural design. The main problem arises if the Gemini child is unable to stay on task or work at the expectation level of the Scorpio parent. If this happens, the relationship will be just as challenging as what occurs with the Gemini parent and Scorpio child.
Gemini Friend/Scorpio Friend
Gemini and Scorpio friends are possible, but probably more casual than serious. Gemini enjoys having many friends and a Scorpio may be among them, just like any other sign. Scorpio is very selective about friendships, so it’s likely that if there is Gemini friendship, the Gemini is engaging it and maintaining it. Since the relationship from the Gemini is not likely to be intense, and Scorpio can keep his or her privacy, the relationship will probably be positive and easy.
Gemini Lover/Scorpio Lover
This romance, love, sex combination can be pornographic and creative. Gemini is “let’s try anything” and Scorpio is “there are some pretty intense experiences I would like to have”. It is very likely that these two will have some wild encounters, but not necessarily long-term romance unless other factors in the charts help. Since Scorpio is fixed, the Gemini individual will be the one to adapt, so if the Scorpio does want a long-term relationship, he or she can bring the Gemini person along for the ride.
Gemini Employer/Scorpio Employee
The Gemini employer and the Scorpio employee can work if the Scorpio employee is able to work how they would like and when they would like. As the sign that prefers to transform, the Scorpio employee will want to be in roles where transition or a shakeup needs to happen. They can be the “guard and attack dog” of the company. Gemini can do a good job identifying where a Scorpio employee can be needed and will not hesitate to put them in those situations. There is no real friction unless the Scorpio does not respect the Gemini leader.
Scorpio Employer/Gemini Employee
If the employer is a Scorpio and the employee is Gemini, this combination works well since the power dynamic is more “correctly” aligned. Scorpio wants things done with passion and appreciation for the results. Any weak link needs to be fixed or cut off the chain. Gemini will either adapt or get fired. The main cache of the Gemini employee is information, which, if they are good at collecting it and provide the employer with what he or she needs, then the employee will be valued.
Gemini Co-worker/Scorpio Co-worker
This combination is a bit more challenging because of the equal position of both as employees. Likely the natural power dynamic, with the Scorpio directing action and the Gemini assisting, will develop and can make the interaction work. But if the management wants them to be seen equally, the Scorpio is likely to feel put upon and frustrated. The Gemini, however, can work with anyone.