Aquarius and Libra are both air signs and a pairing of these two results in a compatible, mutually beneficial partnership between two people who share a common need for constant communication and sharing ideas. Aquarians are eccentric, unique, and different, and it can be challenging to understand their quirks.
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Libra appreciates beauty and sees the beauty in everything, even if it seems odd to others. Libra loves when others take charge, and Aquarius likes to take the lead. Libra will love how Aquarius can bring excitement to their life, and Aquarius will be grateful for a forever loyal companion.
Aquarius and Libra: Personality Match
The intellectual nature both these signs possess is what initially attracts them toward each other. Both Libra and Aquarius are independent signs, and they will allow each other a lot of freedom and space in their relationship. Jealousy and dishonesty are unlikely. Friendship and partnership are blissful between these two air signs; however, it can take some time to open up and get to know each other and connect sexually.
Aquarius isn’t as sensual, loving, and romantic as Libra is, and it will take some Aquarius time to learn how to open up to Libra. Libra will have to be patient with Aquarius and understand that Aquarius isn’t as sensual and romantic as Libra. Libra is very understanding and will have much patience while Aquarius tries to adapt their love style to suit Libra’s needs.
Libra will have a calming and soothing effect on the mindstate and energy of Aquarius. Libra has a sensitive disposition, and they are negatively affected by intense, dark, and negative energy or experiences. Libra’s struggle with confrontation, and they need peace at all time. Aquarius doesn’t easily get shocked by anything and can be somewhat of a brick wall when it comes to their emotional responses. Aquarius can sometimes push Libra into situations and environments that are too much for Libra to handle. They need to understand that Libra is not as easily adaptable as Aquarius, and compromises are necessary.
Sexual and Dating Compatibility of Aquarius and Libra
There will be mutual understanding and a sense of calmness in the sexual union between Aquarius and Libra. The physical attraction between these two will be powerful. When together in a physical union, they can heal each other and remove stress and tension from each other’s minds and allow each other to live in the moment.
They will both instinctively pick up on the physical needs of their partner. There is a sense of familiarity and understanding between them. Aquarius and Libra are the happiest together when they are sharing their mutual intellectual interests. A mental connection is the key to this combination.
Aquarius is happy and comfortable in their own skin, and they love who they are. Libra tends to have insecurities about their appearance, and they always want to seem perfect and aesthetically pleasing to others. Aquarius will make Libra feel more comfortable with their own body and less shy and reserved. Aquarius will teach Libra that they should not place their value and self-worth on the opinions of others, and appearances. Over time, these two signs will open up more and more to each other, and Aquarius can teach Libra about self-acceptance.
When they reach a state of cooperation in terms of their different viewpoints, the relationship will be stable and exciting to both. The biggest challenge will be not to get upset or offended with the idea or view of the other, as each of them tends to believe that their perspective is the correct one.
Marriage and Romance between Aquarius and Libra
Libra rules over the 7th house in astrology, which is the house of marriage. This makes Libra the sign of relationships and partnerships, and their partner is usually their priority. Libra’s get extremely attached to their partner, and they rely on them for a lot, physically, emotionally, and spiritually. If they are not given enough attention from their partner, they can become moody and naggy. This moodiness and nagging can unsettle the Aquarius, as they cannot tolerate neediness as it restricts their freedom. Aquarius believes that each person should be able to stand on their own.
Aquarius rules over the 11th house in astrology, which is the house of friendship and community. An aquarian will generally be popular and have many friends from all walks of life. Libra also tends to be very popular and charming. Usually, the Libra will end up befriending the Aquarians friends, and vice versa!
This couple will not marry in a hurry or early on in the relationship, as marriage is not a prime goal and focus in their lives. Over time, as the commitment and trust develop in the relationship, they might consider marriage at a later stage. It will usually be the Libra who suggests marriage, as the aquarian generally does not want their freedom jeopardized. If the relationship is stable, a marriage could lead to happiness in the future. It is essential that they always stay in constant communication with each other, and that they don’t bottle up their thoughts and feelings.
Aquarius Man and Libra Woman
There can be a bit of a power struggle in the beginning between Aquarius and Libra, as they each will feel their idea and opinion is the right one. It will be essential to find a balance and middle ground between any two separate perspectives and viewpoints that these two hold. Both the Aquarius man and the Libra woman will want to take charge and set out the ground rules for the relationship. They both must realize that neither of them is in charge, and a harmonious relationship results from meeting the needs and wants of both people, regardless of who is right or wrong.
Libra is a masculine sign, ruled by the feminine planet, Venus. The Libra woman will always be a sweet feminine character but will want to lead in some sense due to the masculine influence of her sign. The Aquarius man must avoid being arrogant and pushy with the Libra woman, as she cannot stand this kind of disruption of peace.
The Libra woman will attempt to subtly push the Aquarian male to adapt to suit her lifestyle needs without him even knowing it. Her sweet smile and alluring charm will put rose-colored glasses on his eyes, and he will do whatever she wants. When he does disagree with her, he will stand his ground. At this point, she will need to learn to compromise so that his needs are met, as well as hers. In a sexual union, the Aquarius male will want to take the lead, and the Libra female will have no objections to this.
Aquarius Woman and Libra Man
The Aquarius woman will be irresistibly attracted to the beauty of the Libra man. Aquarius women don’t usually get excited by physical appearances, but with the Libra man, it is different. Most Libra men do possess more attractive physical features than most men of other zodiac signs. The Libra man will think that the Aquarius woman is the most intelligent woman he has ever met, and this will fascinate him and keep his interest.
The Libra man needs to be surrounded by constant beauty. He cannot stand the sight of anything displeasing and unalluring. The Aquarius woman is a humanitarian and does not mind getting down and dirty for the greater good. The Libra man can get frustrated when the Aquarius woman is spending more time on helping strangers in the street than she is working on making her appearance alluring.
The Libra man will have to understand that her priorities are different from his and that she is different from other women. It can be difficult for the Aquarius woman always to meet the emotional needs of her Libra partner, as she is not as in touch with her emotions as he is. The Aquarius woman can struggle to open up to her Libra man completely
This relationship can be a breeze if Aquarius is willing to meet and accommodate the emotional needs of Libra. Libra is very relaxed, and will not act possessive or jealous, which will put Aquarius at ease as they will feel they are still allowed their freedom and space. The more they share their thoughts and ideas with each other, the stronger this relationship becomes. Over time, they will form a strong bond that lasts.
Aquarius and Libra: Trust
There will be plenty of debates between these two. Aquarius is very intellectual, but so is Libra. Libra will always beat Aquarius in a discussion, as Libra can clearly reiterate complex information faster than Aquarius can. Aquarius lets their personal feelings get in the way too often, where Libra can see the bigger picture. Arguments and disagreements will not be long-lived as there will be a mutual agreement to put anything negative aside and start fresh again.
The most significant cause for arguments in this pairing will be due to Aquarius having a set viewpoint, whereas Libra has a more just, fair outlook on life. Aquarius can sometimes feel like Libra is betraying them by not agreeing with their perspective, where Libra just wants to do and believe in what is fair for everyone. Aquarius can have an unpredictable temper sometimes, as Uranus (their ruling planet) represents sudden changes and expressions.
When sparked, an Aquarian will disappear on their own for a while while they try to process their emotions. Libra can find this unsettling, as Libra requires consistency and for their partner to be present all the time. The worst thing the Aquarius can do is disconnect from the Libra. Aquarius must always be open and honest to Libra, and not leave them alone to their thoughts.
Aquarius and Libra: Communication
As both Aquarius and Libra are air signs, their minds are always filled with many ideas and thoughts. When together, there is always constant communication and a meeting of minds. Libra can tend to have their head in the clouds and don’t see things for what they are, or prefers only to see the good. Aquarius also has their head in the clouds, but they are slightly more logical and factual and will point out the facts to Libra, as Aquarius does not possess the “people-pleasing” mentality that Libra does. Libra wants to avoid conflict and make everybody happy, and Aquarius wants to state the facts.
Aquarius and Libra: Values
Most of the disagreements between Aquarius and Libra will be because Aquarius’ fixed nature causes them to be overly stubborn and unchangeable in certain situations, and Libra’s initiating cardinal energy will make them a tad too bossy. Libra, being a fair and balanced sign, will always own up to any unfair behavior they have exhibited.
Libra has a sweet, charming disposition that will melt the heart of the Aquarius and cause them not to be mad or angry at Libra for too long. Aquarius cannot be mean or rude to Libra when they put on that infamous Venusian charm! Arguments between these two signs will be short-lived, as Libra prefers to keep the peace, and Aquarius doesn’t believe in wasting one’s time on trivial matters.
Aquarius and Libra: Shared Interest
They will have many common interests, and connecting through these common interests is a way to build a robust and lasting relationship. Music will be a common interest, and attending music events and concerts can be something these two enjoy together. Generally, they will both have similar tastes in music. Art and theatre can also be a common interest.
Both these signs love people, but each for their separate reasons. Libra loves people as they struggle to be alone. Libra is the sign of partnership, and a Libra who is not around others is lonely. Libra relies on others to make them feel loved and secure. Without the reciprocating love from their loved ones and friends, they feel lost. Aquarius loves people as they love experiencing different perspectives and hearing about unique stories and viewpoints.
An Aquarius is somewhat of a loner to an extent, and they do not need people to be happy; however, they do appreciate the company as it gets their mind thinking. Libra is a socialite, and they do not know what to do with themselves when alone.