How You Want To Be Nurtured in Love: Your Love Language According To Your Moon Sign 

The Moon is all about emotions and feelings, what we need to feel nurtured in love and how we like to be taken care of. The things we do that become habits in order to cope with whatever we have going on. It is the placement you need to take a look at to know how to practice self-care but also how you would want your partner to show up for you in your relationship. Knowing your Moon sign or your partner’s Moon sign can really help to build a deeper connection with each other. It can help you both to take care of each other in a way that feels more nourishing and meaningful. Interested in finding out more? Then be sure to keep on reading to see how you want to be nurtured in love!

Aries 

Being an Aries moon means that you need to be put first in your relationships. You need to know that you are number one in your partner’s life and that they would do anything to make you happy. If they were to put you on a pedestal you would be more than happy because you love feeling adored. You like to feel special. Although you like a lot of attention, it is still important for you to have your own autonomy and be in a relationship that gives you as much space as you could possibly need because your freedom is everything to you.

You need a partner who can give you a lot of space to breathe and do your own thing and to process your own emotions. You are highly independent and go at your own speed and need someone who can understand that about you. Your emotions are volatile and intense and sometimes you tend to blow up when you don’t feel like your needs are being met. This is why exercise and physical activity is so necessary for you. It helps you to let off steam and be a happier person to be around.  

Taurus 

Security and safety mean everything to you as a Taurus moon. You are one of those people who feel most nurtured in love when there is peace and harmony in your life and there is enough stability in your relationships. You aren’t someone that feeds off drama, in fact, it really drains your soul. Because Taurus is an earth sign you might find that you gain comfort from material things. Having enough makes you feel safe and you probably deal with negative emotions by enjoying a fun shopping spree. This is why you are generally attracted to a partner who has a stable income and who could support you if you needed.

However, you tend to work really hard to be financially independent, and this is why you prefer having a partner who doesn’t rely on you too much either. Another invaluable thing you need in your relationship is physical touch, you feel most nurtured in love when someone is affectionate towards you. It makes you feel loved and cared for. Sometimes all you really need is a cuddle to help soothe your darker emotions. Another thing to remember is good food that not only nourishes your soul but also your body. In fact, as long as your senses as involved, you are happy! 

Gemini 

All you truly need to feel totally nourished in your relationships is good old communication, You need to feel like you are able to talk to your partner and that the two of you have a strong intellectual connection. Conversations tend to be extremely nourishing to your soul. When you are going through a tough time is important for you to feel like you can speak about your feelings to your partner because you tend to intellectualize your emotions.

This is why you enjoy getting feedback to help you process. Connection through communication really helps you to feel fulfilled and heard in your life. You have a lot to say and it is vital that someone listens. You’re also quite curious, so you like it when you have a partner who is open to exploring and learning with you. You tend to feel quite nourished when you can go on adventures and find new and exciting things to do, especially when you can share this experience with your partner.  

Cancer 

You’re quite an emotional person and tend to be quite sensitive and empathetic. You naturally feel for others and find it easy to put yourself in their shoes. This is why you get so much fulfillment when you can be there for others. It means the world to you to have someone you can take care of and nurture. You receive by giving it seems because you want everyone in your life to feel comfortable because when you feel that the energy is off in a room, it can make you feel out of balance or out of control.

Having the role of a caretaker makes you feel really fulfilled and like you have a purpose. But it is important that you allow yourself to be treated by a partner, you can’t always give and give because that can easily turn into resentment, even if you don’t mean it to. You like it best when your partner feels like home and family to you. Like you can just be yourself around them. Comfort is key to your happiness.  

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Leo 

Having a Leo moon gives you the penchant for attention. You just love it when the world watches your every move and you’re happiest when the spotlight is right on top of you. Having someone admire and praise you gives you a feeling of safety and happiness. You’re one of those people who is extremely proud of those closest to you. When you love someone you want to show them off for the world to see, but you also expect the same treatment in return. You want your partners to show you off and think that you are spectacular. Receiving attention is really important to you in your intimate relationships.

You’re happiest when you are with someone who is devoted and loyal to you because you really don’t handle rejection or dishonesty very well. You like to have things above board and out in the open. This is why having freedom of expression is so important to you in your relationships. You need to be able to feel like you can be the most authentic version of yourself without any judgment. And this means having a partner who is okay with you being dramatic and passionate when you need to be. Feeling emotions is a highly creative experience for you, but so are your romantic relationships. You like it when your partner makes a lot of effort with you and isn’t afraid of making grand gestures of love to show their affection. Boldness is something you really admire in a partner.  

Virgo 

Helping others gives you a great deal of satisfaction. This is why you love being of service to those you love, it gives you so much happiness being able to be there for people so it is really important for you to be in a relationship with someone who can accept your help and support. It makes you feel like you are being useful when you are coming up with problems and finding solutions to issues people might face. You’re a very practical person, and it is almost like you feel the most nurtured in love when you are able to support someone else in achieving their dreams. You need to be needed and really enjoy when your partner asks you for help.

Unfortunately, there is a side to you that tends to overthink and overanalyze every little detail, so it is also good for you to be with someone who knows how to soothe and appease your anxieties. At the end of the day, you just want to feel like you are good enough. Having a partner that can calm you down and reassure you when you feel out of control is the best for your personality. It is important for you to however also accept it when someone does something nice for you. You deserve to be taken care of as well and small gestures like coming home to a tidy environment or a home-cooked meal can really mean the world to you. It is the small things in life that count. 

Libra 

There is absolutely nothing you appreciate more than peace and harmony in your relationships. This is why you cannot stand being with someone who likes to create drama and upheaval. For you to feel nurtured in love you need to be with someone who understands your no-drama rule. All you want is to live a life of comfort and ease and you will go out of your way to maintain this. You are one of those people who will go out of your way to make the people in your happy and content, but this often means that you will put the happiness of others ahead of your own, thus forgetting about your own needs.

This can be incredibly draining. You need to remember that you aren’t a tap that can keep on running. And you love your social connections but it is important that you charge your own batteries. You do get a lot of your energy from spending time with the ones you love. This is what feeds your soul and this is why love and romance have such importance in your life. It gives you a lot of meaning, especially when you can find someone you have a strong intellectual connection. Communicating and talking to your partner is something you do out of enjoyment and it makes you feel loved and cared for.  

Scorpio 

You’re quite an intense person and are known for your extreme emotions. This is because you feel so deeply and are so sensitive to your surroundings. However, all of this makes you feel quite vulnerable. It can be difficult for you to open up to trust people because you are so scared of getting hurt, this is why it is so important for you to find someone who makes you feel safe enough to be vulnerable. You like to have a partner who has no problem reassuring you and making you feel safe. Unfortunately, your life has been quite intense which makes you feel a little apprehensive about letting someone in enough to trust them.

Loyalty is everything to you, but you’ve found that it isn’t always the easiest thing to come by. Although you need to connect with someone on an intimate level, you also have an intense need to protect your vulnerability at all costs. You hate getting hurt, and this is why you tend to close yourself off. It isn’t the easiest thing for you to open up and get to know someone. This is why you need to be with someone who can repeatedly prove to you that they are someone you can trust, basically, you need someone to earn your love, or else it may not work. You want to be with a protector who can keep you safe and out of harm’s way. 

Sagittarius 

You’re a free spirit with a great need for independence and freedom. You don’t really need anything from your partners because you are so resilient and have no problem taking care of yourself. As long as you can have a life of adventure where you don’t have to play by the rules, you’ll be happy. Domesticity is something that might freak you out because it is impossible for you to sit still and be stuck in one place for too long. You want to be with someone who understands your need to constantly be on a journey and that you often just disappear and take off on a whim.

A partner who is really understanding and doesn’t want to control you is really what you need. For you to feel nurtured in love you need quite a lot of space. It really isn’t good for you when you feel tied up or held back by a relationship. You need to be able to experience life the way you want to. No one else is going to tell you what to do. But it would be nice for you t be with someone who is supportive of your lifestyle, not someone who is out to change who you are. A conventional life will never do, you need more to make you happy. 

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Capricorn  

You aren’t an overly emotional person because you tend to keep your feelings to yourself. Emotional vulnerability is something you’re not very comfortable with. You are someone who is practical, not someone who gets lost in their feelings and this is why you enjoy it when you have a partner who shows their affection by doing things for you or who supports you in practical ways. You’re quite ambitious and want to succeed in life, but often you will use your work as a form of escapism to get away from what you actually feel. You don’t show what you are going through to too many people, it takes a lot of trust before you do.

This is why you need to be with a partner who understands that sometimes you can be rather detached and aloof, but not pressure you into expressing the way you truly feel. The way for you to feel more nurtured in love is for you to be okay with allowing yourself to be vulnerable with your feelings. This will take a lot of time and self-care and this is why you need to be with someone who can be patient and supportive. This is truly all you need to feel nurtured in love, but it would be a good test for yourself to allow yourself to depend on someone else for a change. This might help you soften and make it easier to connect with your partner. 

Aquarius 

You’re one of those people who don’t seem to be that affected by your emotions. In fact, you tend to be quite aloof. It is unlikely for you to feel too upset about something. Intense emotional reactions are few and far between for you. Instead, you rationalize the way you feel without actually allowing yourself to feel your emotions. You’re a lot more practical in your approach and find dealing with your feelings is best if you can find a suitable solution for your problems. You look for the problems you need to fix, you don’t dwell on them. It isn’t always easy for you to connect with your partners on an emotional level because you believe that you can think your troubles away.

You may not realize this, but you tend to be quite stern and intimidating, so it may do you well if you could just soften up a bit and allow yourself to be vulnerable. And you especially like it when you are with someone who cares about humanitarian and social causes as you do. You want to be a force of change in the world and appreciate it when your partner supports you in this. But the most important thing for you is to be with someone with who you can connect on an intellectual level. If you have a strong mental connection with someone, you feel content and nurtured in love. 

Pisces 

Having your Moon sign be in Pisces makes you one of the most highly sensitive and emotional people around. You feel everything so deeply and have a profound empathy that makes you feel the emotions of others on such a deep level. This is why you tend to be so intuitive because you can just pick up on what others are feeling. Sometimes your emotions can get too much for you and you need a good release like through having a cry. It is a lot for you to not only feel your own emotions but the emotions of everyone else around you. You may at times feel like there might be something wrong with you because you are so sensitive, but this is also what makes you so special. It is a gift that you need to share and isn’t something you should feel bad about at all.

For you to feel emotionally nurtured in love you need a partner who can be a source of strength for you and someone who is sensitive to your emotions. Basically, a partner who lets you cry and is a shoulder for you to lean on. Having people in your life who are loving and supportive of you is extremely important for you, but you also need to be with someone who gives you enough space to be alone so that you are able to reflect on what is going on in your life. Your perfect partner would be someone who knows when to be supportive of you and when to leave you alone. 

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