Using a Pendulum to Find Love

The pendulum is a simple, but amazing spiritual tool.  You can make one with a string and a small rock or get one that is carved crystal on a gold chain.  Experimenting with different materials may result in stronger reactions from the pendulum with your energy field, like using silver instead of gold on the chain, or a green stone instead of a black one.

This article will explain how to use a pendulum, and then how to use it to determine the best place to live and love.

Preparing to Use a Pendulum

As stated in the introduction, you can make your own pendulum from string and a stone in your yard or one you find on a walk.  However, there a plenty of places to buy pendulums online, with a wide variety of materials and designs.  They are not very expensive; and if you want to delve deeply into the use of the tool, you might start with one you like and then consider getting others based on colors and types of stones.

You can use any pendulum generally, but specific issues work well with specific stones.  Malachite is excellent for money matters and rose quarts for matters of the heart.  There is a good chance that if your concern falls into a certain category, certain stones will react strongly to the type of question.  Also, you should test to see if a stone reacts strongly to you.

Testing and Calibrating your Pendulum

If you can go to a shop and test the pendulum, or you can afford to buy multiple ones to test, then you will discover that some stones react strongly to you while others do not.  Before you ask anything of the pendulum, you want to make sure you hold it properly.  I recommend resting your elbow on a surface and using your non-dominant hand to hold the pendulum by its string or chain.  Place your dominant hand under your forearm to keep your arm steady so you do not influence the movement of the pendulum.

All you need to do for your first test is to make a yes or no statement, which you know is either yes or no.   After you make the statement, wait for the pendulum to react.  It will either spin clockwise or counterclockwise or move in a back and forth or side to side.  All you want to observe is the strength of the movement.  Test the pendulums until you find the one with the strongest reaction, keeping in mind that you may get a different movement with each new pendulum.

It does not matter which direction the pendulum moves to reflect the truth or falseness of the statement, only that the movement is strong.  Once you know which pendulum gives you the strongest reaction, then you want to calibrate it by making a series of true statements and false statements.  You also need to ask the pendulum to show you “maybe”, which is different than neutral, which is no action.

Lastly, it is important to cleanse your pendulum energetically before you start using it in earnest.  You can get a sage spray, place it in a glass filled with salt, or bury it in soil (a plant pot).  If you use the salt or soil process, letting a new pendulum rest in the salt and soil for 24 hours is ideal.  Sage sprays work much more quickly and are available online.

Finding a Romantic Partner

As someone searching for someone special, you can use the pendulum in multiple ways depending on your circumstances.  Let’s say you are getting into the dating pool for the first time or back into it after a hiatus.  How should you do it?  What process or processes would work best for you?  Should you do online dating?  Should you encourage friends and co-workers to connect you with someone?  What about trying to meet someone in person, especially during the current lockdown and stay-at-home orders in many states of the US and countries of the world?

Take your pendulum through as many different avenues for dating and see which ones give you a “yes” and which ones are a “no”.  And for the “yes” responses pay attention to the strength of the response.  One approach may be more in line with your energy and opportunity.  If you get a “yes” for online dating, then you should visit each site and test it with your pendulum.  You might get a solid yes for OK Cupid and a resounding no for eHarmony.

Once someone contacts you or you reach out to them and they respond, an energy thread has been cast.  With the link in energy, you can test the connection with your pendulum.  You might get a strong “go for it” or “danger, danger” response, but you may also get “maybe” and neutral (no movement).  The first two are easy to handle, but the last two require either more pendulum or work a sense of adventure.

Keep in mind that two levels of interaction must happen to find a potential romance.  It can be great to get pendulum support for email and video exchanges, but you still want to use your pendulum after you meet in person.  Great on the screen, but not so hot in person happens far too often, which is why the best dating advisors will tell you to meet ASAP.  If you develop an intellectually emotional attachment before finding out if you like how the person smells, then you both may be in for a hard experience.

Extrasensory Sensor

We all have psychic skills and intuition, but our rational mind can certainly get in the way.  Think of the pendulum as a type of sensor you can check when you do not trust your own inner guidance.  After all, a pendulum fits easily in your pocket or a purse, so you can pull it out and use it during the date or just after, while the energy is still fresh between you and your date.

This psychic tool is one of the simplest in design, but the most powerful in action, especially if you spend time working with your pendulum to make sure it is a fine-tuned sensor that will help you in your search for love.

Philip Young, PhD

I am a spiritual adviser located in Cary, North Carolina. I earned my PhD in English from the University of North Carolina at Greensboro in 1996 and had a career in academics until 2007, when I retired to become a stay-at-home father. In 2013 I “hung out my shingle” starting my business Black Unykorn Enterprises, LLC. I provide spiritual guidance using different tools: astrology, tarot/oracle cards, numerology, and past life regression (using muscle testing). With a home office, Zoom, WeChat, and WhatsApp, I work with local clients in person and distance clients from around the world. You can read about my practice and contact me through my website: https://www.blackunykorn.com.

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