Everyone has aspects of their personalities that make them proud, and at the same time, that embarrasses them. It is normal to have traits of yourself that you wish you could change. With work, you may be able to change some qualities that you don’t like about yourself. However, sometimes you cannot help how you are. If you are, for instance, naturally forgetful, you can do your best to work on ways to improve your memory. Sometimes you cannot do that, especially if you are pretty busy.
Therefore, the best thing to do is to work on maybe lessening your load, and at the same time, accept your personality flaw of being too forgetful. Remember that no one is perfect, and people should work on embracing their imperfections than judging them. What do you dislike about yourself? Maybe you have more than one trait that you consider to be left to be desired. Let’s zero in on what feature do you dislike about yourself the most regarding your zodiac sign?
Aries – Flying Off the Handle Too Quickly
Aries, you know how confident and radiant you are, which you like about yourself, and other people like that about you too. People can envy your confidence. However, the one thing that you wish you could do is to cool down your outbursts. You tend to get angry at minor things, and sometimes you can express rage in a way where you feel regretful after you calm down. That is especially if you took frustrations out on a loved one, a coworker, or a friend. You end up apologizing, but before you know it, something else makes you lose your temper quickly.
There is nothing wrong with positively using anger to improve something. However, since losing your temper can be an issue, you can always find ways to work with that. Taking a quick walk when you heat up can be enough to cool down quickly before completely losing your temper.
Taurus – Fighting Inertia Can Be a Struggle
Taurus, you are known to be a hard worker and very tenacious when you put your mind to something. You have a stubborn nature, which is not necessarily bad, so you don’t give up when you are determined to work through something difficult. However, there are also many times that if you are not in the mood to do a task, you struggle to find the motivation to get moving on it. Therefore, you become paralyzed with inertia, and you tend to procrastinate as a result.
For instance, you may have the tenacity to work on a project that is important to you. However, when it comes to doing chores such as doing the laundry or cleaning the bathroom, you will leave it until the last minute, until you cannot leave it anymore. You become upset with yourself for failing to take care of these chores sooner. The best thing to do is to set a schedule, so you set your mind to getting unpleasant chores and tasks out of the way before doing anything else. That is the best way to beat inertia.
Gemini – You Struggle to Focus on One Thing at a Time
Gemini, you have an intense hunger for learning, communicating, and socializing. However, you know that once you make up your mind to do something, you do it, but you don’t stick with it. You don’t finish a task that you start when something else comes the way you prefer. That means you will leave a task to start on another, and the next thing you know, you end up with five unfinished tasks because you abandon them all for wanting to do something else.
That means you may, for instance, start a blog in one niche, but then the idea of creating a blog in another niche appeals to you. Then you abandon your first blog to start another, and the next thing you know, you have five different blogs with only one or two posts on them. You understand that this is a struggle for you, and you get upset with yourself that sticking to one thing is difficult. Since you enjoy multitasking, you will want to stick to a few small things to do at once and don’t move on anything more until you complete those.
Cancer – You Struggle with Setting Boundaries
Cancer, you have a strong maternal side, and you want to make sure that others are happy and in good shape. You want to nurture everyone around you. You do the right things by caring for animals, volunteering for charitable causes, and helping those who cannot help themselves. However, where you tend to get yourself into trouble is that you tend to do favors and make sacrifices for ungrateful people. When was the last time you sacrificed a day devoted to self-care to help a neighbor to move their furniture around because they need your help (or something of that nature)? Then you realized that they took advantage of you and showed you no gratitude.
There is a good chance that you can quickly remember. When you think about the sacrifices you make for ungrateful people, you get upset with yourself because you are too nice for your own good. However, it doesn’t have to stay that way. All you need to do is say ‘no’ when you cannot help someone create firm boundaries.
Leo – You Are Not as Confident as You Appear
Leo, others see you beaming with confidence, and that is how you want to appear to others. You want others to see you as a beaming ray of sunshine, and you cannot get enough of being in the spotlight. However, if you look within, you will see that you would not need to show off and be in the spotlight if you were very confident you would not need to show off.
You wouldn’t mind it when others are the center of attention. You wished you had more confidence in yourself. However, the best thing to do is honor your strengths and embrace your imperfections. Trust that others notice you for the honorable things that you do, and there is not a reason to be in the spotlight all of the time.
Virgo – It Bothers You That You Are Not Perfect
Virgo, you are all about staying clean, providing excellent service to others, working hard, and staying organized. You are also not satisfied with anything until you analyze something to the core. However, you want perfection, and it frustrates you to no end that there is no such thing. You don’t only expect perfection from others, but you are harder on yourself for not being perfect. You want to be perfect, and you dislike the fact that you cannot reach that unrealistic level. Neither can anyone else.
You need to learn to lower your standards because perfection is unattainable, and you can always strive for excellence. The next time you make a mistake, cut yourself slack. You are human! Humans are not meant to be perfect. Do your best and be proud that you are.
Libra – Making a Decision Scares You
Libra, you are incredibly diplomatic, and you want others to like you. You want others to like you so much that you shy away from conflicts. If everyone agreed with you, then you would think that makes you likable. However, this hurts you because it takes away your voice. And as a result, when you are put into a position to decide, you are terrified of making the wrong one. What if you make the terrible decision that causes someone to get hurt? That is the last thing you want to do.
However, at the same time, you wish you could make a decision so quickly and not have second thoughts after making a decision. You don’t like how you need to rely on others to help you make a simple decision. The best thing to do is talk it over when it comes to making a decision with someone, weighing the pros and cons, and then taking it from there. Whatever decisions you make may not please everyone, and that is something to accept.
Scorpio – Your Obsessive Nature Gets to You
Scorpio, you are intense, and there is no going around that. You also are private and mysterious. You like those traits about yourself because you give credit for your passionate side for accomplishing things. You appreciate having a mysterious characteristic since that is what makes you intriguing. However, you also know you struggle to let go of things and get to the point where you become obsessive about something. That mainly goes for ideas and people who are important to you.
You don’t handle rejection well, and you struggle to accept that and to let it go. You know that when you obsess on those who reject you or ideas you have that don’t work, it consumes you. It stresses you, and you wish you could stop it since it is not healthy. However, your intense nature makes that difficult for you to do.
Sagittarius – You Can Be Too Blunt for Your Own Good
Sagittarius, so many people wish that they had your optimistic nature, and you like seeing the glass half-full. You enjoy your spontaneity and need to experience adventures. However, you also cannot help yourself as you are overly honest. Honesty is a good thing because no one likes a liar, and you appreciate the fact that you are truthful. However, there are times when you can be too blunt and tactless with it.
There is nothing wrong with telling harmless lies once in a while to spare someone’s feelings. For instance, if your friend tries on a new dress and is excited about it, she asks you if you like it. When telling a harmless lie is ideal, you don’t like it to enjoy her dress without hurting her feelings. However, Sagittarius, you will end up telling her the truth and won’t be tactful. That will ruin her day, and that will waste yours too. Because you are full of guilt over the fact that you were too blunt for your good once again. That is one trait you do not like about yourself, but you struggle to help it.
Capricorn – You Wish You Could Be More Optimistic
Capricorn, you are conscientious, and you value your structure and ambitions. You are also the one to pass up going to a fun party to get your work done, whether you have to meet a tight deadline or not. However, that is not the aspect of your sign that you dislike. You know you can be too pessimistic for your good, and you wish you could see the glass-half-full in some instances. Especially in the cases where you know, there is hope for it to improve.
Therefore, it is never a good idea to be overly and unrealistically optimistic. However, looking at things on a cautiously optimistic side at hopeful situations will make you happier. How can you get there? Talk to your Sagittarius friend, and they will give you some tips.
Aquarius – Struggling with Connecting
Aquarius, you are innovative and unique, and you embrace those aspects of yourself. You are also the type that marches to your own drummer, and you would not have it any other way. However, you are naturally detached and distant even though you are friendly. You keep others at arm’s length, and there is a part of you that wished you could become closer to people. There is an aspect of your distant nature that you do not like. However, at the same time, you also don’t feel at ease with connecting with others on a deep level.
Maybe choose a few close friends who you can allow into your life, as there is no reason to invite a group of people into it. You can take your time with doing that if this is something you are comfortable with doing. You may feel better if you can connect with one friend on a deeper level.
Pisces – You Struggle to Tell Others How You Feel
Pisces, you have a gentle side to you as you are dreamy, and you only want to help people and do selfless acts. However, you do struggle with something, and having too many emotions is one of those things. That is hard when you struggle with having too many emotions simultaneously as you struggle to tell others how you feel. You may be upset with someone who hurt you, whether it was intentional or not.
However, you won’t speak up about how you feel. The idea of it makes you uncomfortable until you get to a point where you end up exploding and going on the attack. That makes you feel even worse after. If only you could be honest about how you feel about something or someone, or their actions, then you would not have to face the guilt after having an explosion. You wished you could be honest and say how you feel, but that is a struggle for you.
Do you resonate with these traits that you do not like about your sign? Suppose you don’t resonate with your sign’s complex attribute, but you resonate with another. In that case, that unfavorable characteristic can result from your Moon or rising sign’s influence. There are several ways to work with these traits about yourself that you don’t like.
Either you can find a way to work around them, or if that is too difficult, then embrace them. Remember that no one is perfect, and everyone has flaws. There will always be flaws. Embrace your traits, the good, the bad, and the challenging ones.