How do you rate your relationship? You may be happy with how things are with your partner, or you may not have any significant issues with your friends. However, even the best relationships can stand for a room for improvement. There is always something that is lacking or something that is not right in any relationship. And when it comes to your zodiac sign, you have some solid traits and some weaker traits. Therefore, it is not a surprise if your negative traits from your zodiac sign may be the cause of why your relationships could be better. So, let’s go over an essential thing that can improve your connection based on your zodiac sign.
Aries, you are the one that loves to lead, and you always want to get moving. However, constant action is essential to you, and you may unintentionally control your partner or your friends to the point that anything they want to do doesn’t phase you at all. That will only cause your partner or friends to feel nothing but resentment and anger about how you are so controlling. Therefore, the best thing you can do is be aware of how you appear to your friends or partner, which is not your intention. Do everything in your power to make them feel valued and heard by allowing them to accept or reject the thing that you want to do with them. If they reject it, be open to making a compromise.
Taurus, you are loyal, and your partner and friends do not need to worry about you doing anything behind their backs. However, you are also very stubborn, which means you are not open to anything they want to do if it interferes with your routine or comfort zones. Your boundaries are incredibly rigid, and you will not allow anyone to soften them up. However, there is only so much that your partner and friends will stand for when it comes to you not wanting to budge. You have to work on making compromises and softening up your boundaries to have better relationships – even if you can find a way to be a little more flexible. They will appreciate the effort you put in for that knowing how rigid you are.
Gemini, you are fun and interesting, which is why you have plenty of friends, and your partner will have to accept that you don’t like to be in one spot for a long time. However, the one thing that can get in the way of your relationships is the fact that you struggle with making decisions. For instance, it can become annoying when you are asked what restaurant you want to go to and turn around and say, “I don’t know, where do you want to go.”
Your partner and friends know that you struggle to make decisions, but if you do not put effort into learning to be more decisive, that frustrates them. Ask them for support for this. Tell them to help you decide since you struggle. With the proper support, you will find it easier to decide which will make everyone happy all around you – including yourself.
Cancer, you are the type that needs to be with your friends and partner too often to the point that you could become stifling. You tend to be clingy, and your intense emotions can drain them too. You don’t mean to do any of this, but you will find that they will find you draining because of these habits you have. You may also come off as controlling because you want to be with them all of the time. What is the best thing you can do to help keep your relationships healthy? Start becoming comfortable with not allowing them to have the space they need but get comfortable with having alone time too. Read a book or take a walk by yourself in nature. You may find that you will be calmer after having some alone time too, and they will love that.
Leo, it is a known fact that you love being in the spotlight, and your friends and partner respect that about you. They love you too because of your charming and warm nature and your generosity. However, you tend to only think of your needs and always ask others to support you while you rarely offer anyone else your support for them. Your friends and partner begin to resent that, but there is one way to fix that. You make the realization that no relationship is one-sided. Offer your support and listen to them when they are having a hard time. Support them with their endeavors the same way they would support you. For a relationship to have the proper balance, there has to be given and take.
Virgo, you are known to be clean, take health and work seriously, and are organized. You are also the type that likes to serve others, and you are a great listener. However, you struggle to have close relationships because you don’t want to open up. Your partner becomes frustrated with you for this reason, and your friends do too. You are afraid to open up and show your vulnerable side. However, if you want your relationships to strengthen, you need to show that side to you in addition to your strong side. The last thing you want is to show anyone that you have weaknesses because of your perfectionist way of thinking. Everyone has flaws and vulnerabilities like you, and your friends and partners want to know that side to you too.
Libra, you are all about finding balance and relationships. However, like Gemini, you struggle with making up your mind and making commitments. As a result, your partner feels that you are stringing them along when you say you will make specific commitments, and then you never do. You do not intend to lead them on, but you cannot make up your mind about whether to make a specific commitment or not. You struggle with decision-making, and that is the least of it. However, your partner may not know where they stand in the relationship if you never take the next step. Or if they offer to take you to the next step, you don’t answer whether you accept it or not. That is because you don’t know but at least keep them in the loop. There is the risk they will flee if you cannot make up your mind at all.
Scorpio, it is a known fact that you struggle with trust, and you are naturally intense. It takes you a while to trust anyone, but you are less suspicious of them once you do. However, even that is the case, you will struggle to let them into your world. That will frustrate your partner. You are naturally secretive, and your partner will understand that, but you need to let them into your world a little more since you are in a relationship. Otherwise, your partner will feel as if you are shutting them out even though that is not the case. The same will go for your friends, and they will eventually grow tired of that.
Sagittarius, you love being free, you love adventure and travel, and you are naturally truthful and optimistic. However, that does not always mean you will say everything you think. You are open to changes, and you welcome new relationships. However, the way you feel about commitment can be challenging and what can make it worse is that you are not open about it to your partners. The best thing you can do is be upfront about your expectations in your relationship from the beginning, so your partner knows what to expect from you. The last thing they will want is to fall in love with you and want to get married, but you want to run away because the idea of making that kind of commitment scares you. At least let your partner know this upfront.
Capricorn, you are ambitious and take life seriously, and you also take your relationships seriously. However, you have some similarities to Scorpio, whereas you don’t allow those into your life so easily as you don’t like to get too close to others. That is why you put up invisible walls around you. Those invisible walls that you place around you make your friends, and your partner feels as if you are pushing them away. Therefore, they will avoid you. And when they avoid you, you become hurt. The reason they are avoiding you is that you are pushing them away. The best way to improve your relationships is to be aware of the walls around you and take them down. Those who care about you want to be close to you.
Aquarius, you are progressive, and you are an excellent problem-solver. Yes, you are the type that tends to keep to yourself, but you do find a way to get close to those who you want to let into your world. That is not your most significant issue that needs improvement once you get to that point. However, the problem is when you think you know the answer to something, you own it, and you believe you are right while you shut down what others say. That is because you struggle to accept that you may not be correct even after all of the problem-solving you have done to find the answer. Therefore, you can come off as controlling and condescending to those who challenge you on it. That will undoubtedly push people away. You can agree to disagree and try not to allow it to get in the way of your relationships if you don’t want to accept their argument over your answer.
Pisces, you are emotional and empathetic. You will do anything for your partner and friends to the point that you can burn yourself out. However, if you feel they don’t appreciate it, you will become the victim of burnout, which is how you will express your disappointment. You will also think that you are the victim of a bad situation you did have control over, and that way of thinking will push your friends and partner away.
No one likes those who stick to a victim mentality. That is the one thing that can get in the way of all of your relationships. If you recognize it and own up to your mistakes, that will help your relationships. Also, don’t go out of your way for anyone who may not appreciate it. Perhaps they don’t want you going out of your way for them anyway! Focus on your wellbeing.
Do you recognize any of these faults in yourself and your partner or your friends? Chances are you do, regardless of your sign and the signs of your friends and partner. The best thing you can do is hint at how they can make improvements when it comes to their relationships with you. They may get mad and defensive at first. However, they also will be more likely to take ownership of the mistakes they make when it comes to their relationships with you and with others. By the same token, if you recognize any of these issues you struggle with yourself, you can work on them to improve your relationships.